G’day,
This is one of the best things I have EVER seen in our great sport. It’s an absolute MASTERCLASS by Prakash Amritraj on the Tennis Channel, interviewing Mirra Andreeva after her 6-7, 6-3, 7-6 victory over Anna Bondar in the 4th round of Madrid.
Let’s cut to the chase. Mirra led 5-1 in the third set and then lost five straight games to trail 5-6. She then said some things that were very self-defeating. Disturbing, really. The 19-year-old lost control of her emotions and became very negative.
But she pulled out of the spiral and won the match.
LESSON – One of the toughest things to do for a PARENT or COACH is to correctly handle the post-match discussion AFTER a player has acted poorly in the match.
What should you do? Address it straight away to discuss the problem? Get angry at the player? Dismiss the bad behavior? Create an awkward situation that helps nobody?
Here’s what Prakash did…
Disarm & Deflect. He did it brilliantly!
He changed the narrative and started the interview with “What were you happy with?” He removed any potential confrontation immediately.
If you are a parent or a coach, you need to copy/paste the exact line of discussion Prakash used. He absolutely nailed it, and Mirra gets to talk about the dark place she found herself in so that she can address it and then move on.
Watch the two videos below and follow Prakash’s lead on how to turn a tough talk into an encouraging one.
VIDEO 1: 2026 Mirra Andreeva’s Negativity At 5-6 In The 3rd Set
VIDEO 2: Prakash Armitraj Interview Mirra Andreeva
SUMMARY: LET’S COPY PRAKASH’S MENTAL MASTERCLASS
Let’s first recognize it’s not an easy situation for Prakash to be in, having to address the dark place Mirra’s mind went to in the match.
Here’s how he did it.
1 DISARM. He immediately lowers the temperature of the conversation. Mirra obviously knows they are going to address her meltdown at 5-6, but I am sure she is relieved that they are not diving straight into it. Prakash says “First talk to me about the tennis. What were you happy with, with your game today?”
Boy that’s good. Parents take note. Coaches take note. Let’s follow Prakash’s lead and not bring all those negative emotions back to the surface so quickly. Getting Mirra to say “I’m pretty happy with how I played” makes a positive and constructive conversation possible.
2. REFRAME. Prakash says early in the interview that “You regrouped beautifully in the third set.” This is the first time he addresses the very difficult third set where Mirra lost five straight games. He starts the discussion in the most positive way possible. It’s pure genius to take such a negative experience and start the conversation about it in such a positive manner.
3. COMPASSION. Prakash says “It’s easy for tennis players to get into a bit of a dark place.” He understands. He sympathizes. He lets her know that she is not alone with battling mental demons.
4. POSITIVE MINDSET. Prakash follows up with “But you pulled yourself out of it just so amazingly.” What a wonderful way to spin a positive from what must have felt absolutely awful for Mirra at the time.
5. POSITIVE SELF TALK. Prakash has brought the conversation to such a good place in Mirra’s head that she is now able to pinpoint positives from the whole experience.
6. POSITIVE FINISH. The interview ends with Prakash saying “Very brilliant analysis” and “really, really awesome effort out there today.” This whole experience is a positive for Mirra and helps her journey of healing as she moves away from the dark place she found herself in deep in the third set.
Thanks to Prakash, and his wonderful interview, we now have a blueprint to copy as parents and coaches to handle the tough times that inevitably happen in our great sport.
